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PostSubject: Should 4 Year Olds Learn About Sex?   Sat Jul 05, 2008 8:03 am

Apparently yes Exclamation Exclamation


2 UK charities are calling for compulsory sex lessons for children as young as 4

"Many young people are having sex because they want to find out what it is, because they were drunk or because their mates were.

"That's just not good enough for young people. We've got to have high expectations for them so they've got high expectations for themselves.

All the evidence shows that if you start sex and relationships education early - before children start puberty, before they feel sexual attraction - they start having sex later.

They are much more likely to use contraception and practise safe sex."


Is this true ??
What happens in other countries ??


http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/7489093.stm

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PostSubject: Re: Should 4 Year Olds Learn About Sex?   Sat Jul 05, 2008 8:04 am

This Was My Reply:

WHAT THE f*ck ARE THEY TRYING TO DO KIDS ARE HAVING SEX YOUNGER AND YOUNGER BY THE DAY AND THEY THINK THAT THIS WILL HELP DO THEY?? ANSWER EQUALS NO! IT'S JUST ENCOURAGING THEM TO DO IT MORE!

FOR ONE I DIDN'T DO SEXUAL EDUCATION LEARNINGS TO LATE YEAR 7 WHICH IS AGE 11/12! AND I THINK THAT'S TOO YOUNG!

FOR f*ck SAKE WHEN WILL THEY LEARN?!?
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PostSubject: Re: Should 4 Year Olds Learn About Sex?   Sat Jul 05, 2008 11:27 am

I'll just repeat what my parents have told me. Safe sex=no sex.

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PostSubject: Re: Should 4 Year Olds Learn About Sex?   Sat Jul 05, 2008 1:09 pm

Yeah...well, I think it should be the parents responsibility to teach their children about sex. I think 4 years old need to know some things about it, but, certainly not much...just enough to answer, where did I come from? That kind of thing.

The government can't control when kids have sex...only the parents and the kids themselves can.
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PostSubject: Re: Should 4 Year Olds Learn About Sex?   Sat Jul 05, 2008 3:25 pm

They should be teaching children 10 years and above, im sorry to say but younger and younger kids are having sex thats the reality of it all. Its better to teach them while their young so it could reduce the amount of teenages getting pregnant.

Parents are also to blame for this, but they cannot watch them 24/7.
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PostSubject: Re: Should 4 Year Olds Learn About Sex?   Sat Jul 05, 2008 3:27 pm

That's true but teaching them at the age of 4?? they're not going to remember what their being told and at that age it's a bit young
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PostSubject: Re: Should 4 Year Olds Learn About Sex?   Sat Jul 05, 2008 3:31 pm

I totally agree that age 4 is far too young thats why I mentioned 10, thats before they hit their teenage years.
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PostSubject: Re: Should 4 Year Olds Learn About Sex?   Sat Jul 05, 2008 3:34 pm

Yeah that is a better age to start teaching them rather than 4. What were they thinking when they came up with this idea??
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PostSubject: Re: Should 4 Year Olds Learn About Sex?   Sun Jul 06, 2008 2:41 pm

I learnt about it in year six, so about aged 10/11 and I think that was fine. I know a kid who learnt about it at like 5 and I dunno if it's effected him in any way, any odd psycology is probably due to home schooling rather than his parents telling him about sex at such an early age.
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PostSubject: Re: Should 4 Year Olds Learn About Sex?   Thu Jan 22, 2009 12:28 pm

Well this is interesting. I actually think it might be a good idea teaching them so young. If they know about sex early then they wont be so curious when they are older. If it's an accepted thing that it's best when you are of legal age and with someone you love and it is programmed into them so young then it might stop alot of them going out and rebelling by having sex so young.

If you make them more comfortable about talking about sex and especially safe sex then hopefully it will stop so many unwanted pregnancys.

Something has to be done to stop people having sex so young. Every week I hear someone else I went to school with is pregnant and a lot of the year below. People are ahving sex younger and younger and with more and more people. If they are taught that having sex in a loving relationship is how you're going to get the most out of it from a very early age then hopefully they will realise this and not go out to a park get drunk and have sex with someone just because they feel pressured into losing their viginity.

I watched a programme a long time ago on sex education in Holland and they are taught from like 6. I just looked it up and found this quote.

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Sex is everywhere in the Netherlands, yet the country has the lowest teenage pregnancy rate in the West and the lowest rates of sexually transmitted diseases among young people. Now Britain, with almost the highest rate of teenage pregnancy in Europe - five times higher than the Netherlands - wants to emulate its success.

It's from this site:http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/the_way_we_live/article5208865.ece

Some other good points:
Quote :
“We don't have formal sex education in primary schools,” he says. “The children talk about sex when they feel like it and when they want an explanation. We treat sex as a healthy physical activity between two adults who are in love. Every year we have teachers who are pregnant or getting married, whether they are gay or straight, so it is a good way to talk about adult relationships.”

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He believes it is important to talk to children in a relaxed way about sex before they become self-conscious and embarrassed. “It is all about self-respect,” he said. “There is no point in telling children just to say ‘no' - this is a liberal country; you need to tell them why they are saying ‘no' and when to say ‘yes'.”

If they are taught that they should be in a loving relationship then I really dont see the problem. Obvioulsy they arent going to tell these 4 years olds about hardcore porn or something or going graphically into detail about different aspects.

I dunno I think I just hear of too many people getting pregnant around here. It's ridiculous. Girls are having sex with many partners when they are in year 7, when they are 11. It's just not right. If we are open about it and properly discuss it with children when they are younger then maybe they wont all go out having sex so young. In the UK you can get condoms for free so why do we have so many teenage pregnanys. People aren't educated enough and are too easily influenced by their peers. If they all accept it when young then maybe we can change it. It certainly is working for the Dutch.

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